Love can cure all your problems.

Dear readers, today I will be talking about love. Not the boy girl kind of love, or kissing and physical love (that's a whole other blog post), but human love. "But isa what is human love?" Simple. Loving humans. This is something that I have been thinking about and struggling with this topic. A couple weeks ago in my AP English class, we learned a new word, misanthrope. This word basically means human hater. For the next two days, I took a journey of self discovery and found that I was in fact a misanthrope. Not in the way as to where I hate everybody, but to the the way where I don't want love. I enjoy being on my own, and I just like doing thigs myself. The truth is people, you cant. I have been going through so many things in my life recently, and 2014 has gotten off on a rough start for sure. As I have been struggling for a while, I decided to do this on my own without any help. Yeah that plan sucked. The truth is, I cant do it without people encouraging me and smiling at me and even giving me a nice little hug. As humans we want love, not just want but we NEED IT!!! We want people to be nice to us, and to wave at us when we let them in front of us on the road. This is the thing that I truly believe is missing in our society, myself included. Its hard to love people, but its worth it. My good friend Madison Thomas loves people so much. The other night when I was just under a lot of pressure, I called her on the phone and was telling her everything I was going through. I told her not to worry about it and not to get involved. She said this "Isa, im with you no matter what you say.". That's love. We don't know what people are going through, or how much a smile would mean to somebody. People think that love has to be some huge elaborate scheme that you throw together for valentines day, but its not. The best love is real and raw. Just listening to somebody, that's love. High fives, that's love. Telling them the truth, that's tough love haha. I am so selfish. I want what's best for Isa Perdichizzi. I forget to consider what others may be going through. I don't take into account that everybody is going through something, and they might just need some TLC (Tender Love and Care). Ummmm I hope you enjoyed this post, but this one was for me. This is what I needed to get out. I think that im superman, and that I can go through everything in life on my own, but that's not true. That's why there are other people on this world, so that we can encourage, and love people. So maybe leave a nice note for somebody tomorrow, or just go out of your way to share a smile or a little laugh. Nothing makes me happier and feel more loved, than a solid joke. Everybody has a story, and its not our job to read it, but it is our job to make sure the book doesn't get destroyed. (that was a terrible analogy). I have a whole other blog post to write about friendship, but I thought this would be a good starting place. Even the toughest people need love.


I wrote this blogpost on my school tablet, which is terrible, so blame it for any spelling problems.